Thanks Sandi! Big boost for me. You weren't blunt at all, in fact I needed that bit of reality. Sure, I want to make it work, 20 years of marriage is a long time, but I know it will be a lot of work if a reconciliation is to take place. Work for me too, I need a lot as well.

And yes, I think letting go of the emotional rope might just be what I have to do. Getting there.

Devouring every thread I can! Lots of great info!


Me - Mid 40's
W - Mid 40's
Married 20
No kids
BD - 7/2015
ILYB...
Moved out 2 days later
Suspect EA