I know, you're so right, Cali. Thanks for the reminder.
Can you point me to what you considered were the best resources for understanding and coping with your wife's MLC? Heavy pointed me to some really good ones. I am hoping to find something not so much audio/visual but readable, because my sweet mom wants to read up on this so that she can understand where W is coming from, and pray for/relate to her accordingly. I do know that looking at this through the MLC lens is helpful - even if things are bound to take longer, there is something to pin all this mess on. And when I forget, which is when the pain is the strongest, someone here comes along to remind me.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
