So sorry Becky. It's bad enough when a spouse leaves, but the added insult when there is OM or OW is salt in the wound. As you say, God has a plan. I wouldn't be so sure that your H won't have regret at some point, and maybe even want to come back. I'm in a D support group for men, and one of the other guys left his W, filed for D, and then called off the A 6 months later. It's now a year after his D and he's in terrible shape. He finally realized that he truly loved his W and what he had lost. But you can't focus on that, as it may never happen. Go be the best Becky you can be. Sending you strength.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.
