Originally Posted By: tkdmme

I have been reading other threads off and on today and came across one that hit home. They were discussing why the LBS needs to figure out whether he is dealing with WW, WAW, MLC, or a combination. From reading these posts I realized that I have some need to figure that out too. I don't know why but it seems that this would be easier to accept if my W was MLC. After reading the responses from the vets it seems that really doesn't matter at all which one she is. The action we have to take is the same.

I saw that same thread, and had the same questions. I'm convinced that my W is a WW right now, but I think it may have started as a MLC. But like you said, doesn't really matter much. You do the same stuff regardless. In fact, you sort of hope it's not a MLC, because that tends to take the longest to work through.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.