I talked to my DB coach this morning which always helps me put the focus back on me. It's definitely time to go dark, which I will be able to do pretty well I think. Now we can communicate about divorce stuff via lawyers. H will want be in the house soon to get the rest of his stuff. We talked about a strategy for that.
He also suggested to look for an opportunity to do a 180. H and I used to be playful together. He said if there is an opportunity look for an opportunity to tell a joke. Not sure how to do that while going dark?
I have accepted the fact that this will end in divorce barring a miracle. A little part of my heart still wants that miracle
Me - 53 H - 48 Together 13 yrs No children together BD - May '15 EA confirmed June '15 Filed for separation/living mostly separate 7/15 H counter files for divorce 8/15
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
