You've clearly not looked into the dangers of llamas - they are the Hippos of south america.
but you're on!! Now just to find appropriate options.....
I understand the name change - that worry that XW or someone I know has read everything I've posted is quite disconcerting. Matt's situation was pretty hideous.
Now on to the other bit ...... H is hurrying along because OW is pregnant and they want to get married...... that's some serious catastrophising even by my exceptional standards
You know anyway but, just don't worry about it as it only hurts you to worry. besides he might be hurrying because he's desperate to open a exotic bird wildlife sanctuary and needs to get the stuff sorted so that he can borrow the money in order to buy all the Macaws little woolly hats ready for winter.
have fun with the Llamas
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress