A good post. I really like the latter half of it about you and how you intend to move forward for you. And the thanks you express can easily be echoed back to you from many of us.
Originally Posted By: Pink
That he is an idiot and was blind for so long that now he can just regret his choices and will try to learn from his many mistakes.
Its at this point i just want someone to say to him something like
'well you could also stop wallowing in your self inflicted misery and start trying to make things right again'
Better yet would have been if you had said. 'I know. your loss.' and then with a flick of the hair walked away.
Not sure i'm being particularly constructive but your H divorced you and he needs to both understand what that means and take some responsibility rather than still acting the victim. Probably best you listen to Sotto rather than me.
although as I typed I remember a thread by Job that I read a little while back which I think might be useful in your circumstance. Here's the link, so when you get a chance take a look.
