Now that I am coming out of the fog and working on GAL, it seems like GAL is what she wanted, and will allow her to walk away easier. Is this common? WAW/MLC guilt? Continue to be patient and ride the storm?
Of course she feels guilty for tearing your family apart. She wants you to be happy so that she doesnt feel that. But, she ALSO wants you to be unhappy so that she knows she was important to you.
So, you see, theres no "winning".
Thats why you worry about you, and you stop caring about how she might interpret your actions.
