Yeah except my H is a complete J**** right now he is unapproachable on anything. Anything I try to talk about he cuts me off and starts with yeah I am the bad guy I am the a**hole its all my fault and then the famous I am not going to listen to this sh**.
I have tried to have a normal conversation about anything with him and it immediately turns to him yelling and I an not going to talk about this or you are saying I am a bad father and I am not listening to this sh**. It is ridiculous and at this time I feel I can't approach him with anything.
If he starts a conversation and it is about him and you agree with him or he says someone is a jerk and you agree there is no yelling or if like he will say at least I am not that fat and then you can compliment him he is fine. As long as I am or S is doing what he says or agreeing with him 100% he stays calm but if you disagree or he thinks you have an opinion like I want to paint the house (which he doesn't leave in ) you get fine do whatever you want I don't care.
My car broke down and he was looking at it (it is 12 years old) so I started telling him about a preowned car I found pretty cheap and he started yelling that we had no money for that and picked up the thing you slide under the car with and put it over his head and slammed it to the garage floor breaking it, threw a flashlight across the garage and broke it and then closed his fists and eyes tight and shook and cussed.
