Originally Posted By: ohgosh
I agree with you it is probably number 2.

I TRY to give her space however we still need to sort out this flat together this week which I am trying to conclude without a hitch, hopefully today was the last time we meet about it.


Unfortunately, life doesnt just stop at BD. Even when we would do anything to get some space from our spouse, life, business, kids, require some level of periodic contact. Sometimes, theres only so dark you can get.

With that said, when you DO have interactions, you need to make the most of them. No more grumpiness, arguing, R talks...NONE OF IT. Only show the person you want her to see: calm, cool and collected. Happy and busy. Dont show her someone that cant seem to function without her.