Does not really matter at this early point in the game if your W is WW, WAW, MLC, Prom Queen, whatever .... at this early point in the game its more about you. YOU control YOU .... nothing you nor we can do about W and her actions. That being said ... there are things YOU can do .. things YOU can change. These are healthy things. Just know ... you can make all these changes and think .. OK ... I shaved off my beard now she will love me... does not work that way nor that quickly. Its all about consistency, you really have to stick to it ... there will be tests I assure you, make the changes for YOU and stick to them.