Thank you cat.
I know feelings can really mislead us. Look at what they've done to my H. That's why I keep coming back & asking questions on what to do - I don't want to be misled by foolish emotions.
Thanks for the book suggestions. I read His Needs/Her Needs a long time ago.


Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?