I just read "midlife for dummies" over on fdu's thread. Cadet posted a link for it. It all sounds like what I always thought was going through XF's head these past few months. Haha


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home