Hi Solo, sorry you're having a rough morning. Detachment is a journey. It doesn't come overnight and takes time and persistance - plus GAL.

If you don't want to go to the beach - maybe just be direct and pleasant with your W and say - No, that doesn't work for me, thank you.

Take care xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus