Read up on your sitch Mavrik. The in house separation is very difficult so I understand how that feels. Try your best to just leave her be (don't be cold or ignore her) and allow her to just figure things out. Don't contribute to her chaos. When she tries to bait you into an argument try not to let yourself be pulled in. If shes saying something irrational that is pushing your buttons and trying to start an argument, resist it. Like when she came at you to fight about you washing her clothes, just say ok and don't wash them anymore. You don't need to explain it because shes just looking to make you react.

Keep being civil to her and don't react to her attempts to drag you in. In time when she keeps trying to fight you over and over and it doesn't get the reaction she wants she will calm it down. That can take a long time thought. Focus of your life and moving forward with it and let her figure out her own issues. If she comes back you can then figure out what happens. You will learn you really have the power here even when shes the one leaving and filing for D.

You should be able to find the book in a store, you don't need to order it online. Try there first so you can get it asap.

Last edited by Fogg; 08/13/15 01:40 PM.
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