have i been making mistaked too long. part 2

[WhyUs]

I wanted to say this to you yesterday but was not sure I could verbalize it. I'm going to give it a shot.

I am at a stage where I have very little chance to make decisions. That time has passed for me and I hope I will get more chances later. This could be a good thing in the sense that I won't make mistakes.

I would say, that you are at a point where you are still able to make choices that will affect the outcome. Make your choices wisely. Do not make them based on emotion. That is what your wife does--see where that got her.

I wish I had the opportunity to go back to where you are right now. I would follow DB to a "T." I did not have DB at that stage in my sitch. Remember this, there is no going back. Every move you make counts. Take time to understand what you are doing. Use this board and the people on it to help you. I no I do not have the strength or self discipline to do everything right. But the people on this board help me to do the right thing by giving me rational advice.

Your emotions are important in the healing process. However, hurt you when it comes to decision making. If you feel emotional do not make your decision at that time.

Your doing good. Last night is not going to make or break this. I am rooting for you...we all are