No, what's done is done, so don't go over it again and again. Don't share your DBing with your W. It's for you. If she knows what you're doing, you're a busted flush. You've got to be secretive about your plans. Remember, it's about you and your actions.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015