I was stuck for a long time at the beginning of my sitch trying to figure out if my W was WW, WAS, MLC, depressed W, etc. Fact is shows characteristics of all of them and what I needed to be doing didn't change much anyway. The energy I invested in trying to determine what she was was much greater than just figuring out what I needed to be doing.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
