It might not feel like an epic fail, but to your W you've been snooping. Trust me (experience) that will do nothing but drive a further wedge between you. If you find yourself in that situation again, STFU and walk away.
Remember, distance and detachment, actions not words!
Don't panic, we've all been there.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015