"She needs a reality sandwich....and I need some solitude so I can think this M through"

I agree NH - you don't need a big talk right now. I think you just need to do what you have to do.....so what's your plan my friend? We are all here to help and support, and only want the best for you. xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus