running around like a chicken without a head

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Hey there so I did ask. And he's like you want me to walk you to the car. You want kisses and hugs. Like my high school sweetheart lol. I laughed it off and said ok!!!
He saw a guy talking to me and he flipped. It was innocent. He was just asking for a cigarette but he didn't like that I was talking to another guy.
Last week I tries to tell him let's make the d official so I won't expect him to come home or anything from him except for child support and help with rent and bills. I was like but just know I'll be dating and hes like no guys come around my kid. And I said you think I'm gonna be single for the rest of my life. I said this is the reality. Just like they will have a new woman in their life they will have a new man in their life. He's like try amd see what will happen.

[mahhhty]

"Hey there so I did ask. And he's like you want me to walk you to the car. You want kisses and hugs. Like my high school sweetheart lol. I laughed it off and said ok!!!" - I am glad you asked. Now you know exactly what he means. Sounds a little silly, but at least you don't have to guess.

"He's like try amd see what will happen." - Was that a threat? Is he living in some la la land?

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He sometimes acts like he don't care. But I know he does. I'm hopeful and have been dark again but not completely.

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Hey everyone I'm back and really need help. I will write my update sometime today or towards the evening.
Stand by

[gonegrl]

Standing by.....just caught up on your sitch and hope you are ok!

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Hi photos a thanks for reaching out. . I'll post my story in a new post

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So here's what's been going on in my crazy messy life.
In may when he came back home things were ok. We were working on it. Then in mid June things got weird again. He wasn't coming home and was distancing himself again. We would argue and he would leave and not come back. In July he was robbed and shot and that night I met the other girl. She called me and came over we drove the kids to my parents house and went to the hospital together. It was so awkward. I hated that she was there. After he was released I ran to him and he was so cold with me. He then turned to her and gave her a hug and kiss. I felt so stupid to be there. I felt like the 3rd wheel. Like wtf I'm your wife. Anyway we came home and he left with her. For a week and a half he didn't come home. All I could think about was god gave him another chance to come home and be with his kids but nope. And I thought ok he's made his choice, he wants to be with her. So why isn't he filing for divorce. I've told him that we would file joint custody and split the cost of the divorce. His answer was good luck. 2 weeks ago I did a pregnancy test and I'm now 7 weeks pregnant and devastated because I'm having an abortion on sat. He doesn't want the baby cause he'll know things with her will have to end. So here I am lost in this mess and don't know what to do. I'm so heart broken. .. oh and Aug 19 would be our 9 year anniversary

[gonegrl]

I am so sorry depress.

I don't really know what to say. Let's just say that he is gone, completely out of the picture, no chance of him coming back, him and OW don't exist. Do you want this baby? For yourself, this is your choice. Do not make this decision for him or for your Marriage. Make this decision (either way) for yourself.

[Uphill]

Oh wow depress, I wish I could reach out and hug you! I have no words other than you have to make that choice for you, not anybody else. It sounds like a very sticky situation and my heart goes out to you!

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hi photoka,
i have really thought about it. but i would not be able to do it alone with my the other 2 i already have a hard time. plus my job doesnt pay that much. im not ready for another baby. im sad, but you know honestly im like numb. i have no feelings about it. most probably will be a different story after wards. i dont know any more.