PP's New Adventure (5) - Filing & Moving Forward

[PigPen]

Here's round 2 Wonka.

Hi W,

I appreciate you seeing this from my side and acknowledging how painful it’s been for me to be without Woofie. It’s been over 4 months without him so I’m excited to see him this weekend.

You are correct in us not seeing eye to eye on Woofie, because this is an emotional topic, emotions are inevitably going to get involved in deciding “where he would be happiest”. We both LOVE him and adore him. It’s acceptable to admit that is a huge part of our decision. To say otherwise would be disingenuous and deny our humanity. I know you love and want to have him stay with you. I do too. I won’t deny that part of you.

However the process is mystifying to me as you appear to want to hold all the cards in clearly defining “what is best for Woofie”. How does that help the healing process and/or keep open the lines of communication? Decisions about Woofie should be made as a partnership, not a monopoly.

I do not want our friendship to be forever altered over how we handle Woofie. To do so dishonors the loving, fair, and high level integrity with which we’ve both conducted our separation thus far.

Woofie and I are going to have a blast this weekend, I've got a full day lined up for him!

Thanks,
PP 1.75 but getting closer to 2.0 with every email.

Any thoughts on this Wonka?

Thanks!

PP