I don't feel like I bought my boys enough school clothes or shoes. Wife and her mom got some (I didn't see them shop). My kids didn't seem too happy with their mom and grandma got them.
...should I reach out to my wife and ask if I can take them shopping or ask what they need, etc?
I need confirmation. I am telling myself I am moving forward trying to let go hope on if we will ever get back together. I'm detaching. I'm working on myself but is it normal to keep thinking about how things were with my boys and me coaching them 6 days a week and now since they have moved away I won't be able to do it logistically?
I am a Great Dad and wonderful father. My closeness with my boys won't be the same.
