If she is hurting then why doesn't she stop her destructive behaviors?
Many times we don't know whats the cause of our pain, just that it hurts. Even if she did know the cause, it doesn't mean she knows how to stop it yet. Both things no one can tell her, she has to figure them out on her own the hard way.
I see it as they are trying to stop hurting, which is why they go to OM/OW and leave us. Process of elimination to find out whats the cause. One day(hopefully) they run out of the wrong things to try and see the right things.
Last edited by Fogg; 08/13/1501:33 AM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
