Ouch on the Victoria's Secret bag. I know it's hard but try not to make assumptions. No way to mind read. She could have been buying a gift for a girlfriend, or whatever. But you should definitely be on the lookout for other signs of an A, just in case. It's rough brother. On the bright side, your W is still living with you. Mine bailed out and moved right in with OM. I've got to deal with my kids spending time with him. So yeah, it could be a lot worse. Hang tough.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.