Sleeping Beauty and the Jedi

[AJM]

You've already been clubbed. I'll barely add to that.

Couple of things though as you move through this. Remember when I mentioned how you could become a despot? Drunk with power? Remember her saying that she can't breathe? Seems she may be telling you that she is impatient with the process too

There's more to the dynamic than you. Be careful of hurt little boy, mi amigo.

That said, fighting is not the problem now is it? Learning how to fight is. Transitioning from hunker down and let the barrage pass mode to being present and participatory is...awkward, no?

Don't think of the fight as a backslide is all I'm saying. Rather, it was an opportunity for you BOTH to blow off some steam. As long as you figure out to move past it in a healthy way.

If you're really indifferent about things, stop calling the place a name with quotes. That'll be the easier way for us to tell

Next time, try Wonka's advice about how to greet her on her first days at work - it's a much better way to share the positives and stop living with the past like an elephant sized necklace. Elephants make bad jewelry when worn whole.

Somebody once mentioned that if the relationship was solid, the elephants begin to look like roaches. Or something like that. Quotes don't come easily to me, 'amigo'.

AJ