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I know it is hard man. Just hold your words. What is more important, saving you marriage, or releasing hurt and anger by confronting your W in the heat of the moment?


Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs
EA: Started 3/2015
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PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015
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I was having a good day and now this bs. Honestly, why do we try? Really, why? I'm not sure I even care at this point. I feel numb. I am taking your advise. I'm in the back yarn playing guitar. Btw I'm a hell of bluegrass picker. It eases me and reminds me of where I came from.
I was raised on music and it has been the only constant in my f$&+* up life. No matter who let's you down , music is there. I have spent my entire life studying my craft and I am damn good at it.
I would rather loose five wives than one finger.
I've been drinking sorry for the selfishness.


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Your right my marraige is more important.


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Whyus,

How do you cope with this. You sound so confident.


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When in doubt do nothing ... especially if you have been drinking a bit ... do not waste all the work you have put into this on a one night release of outburst.

The bag stings .. totally get that .. been there. Heck .. I have been through worse and still in the ring.

Think long ball here, sure you could sink this putt ... its not going to win the match ... calm and cool ... put this aside for now until you have more intel and really know whats up.


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Ok, I know yall are right. I'm calming down a bit. I do need more intel before asking about it.


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I dont deal with it well. I just know the consequences from doing the wrong thing. Im a Georgia boy too. Going on my back porch to see if I can hear you. Play for an audience!


Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs
EA: Started 3/2015
MC Started: 4/2015
She moved out and served 6/2015
PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015
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Whyus, I'm playing ass off. You probably can't hear it. She just got home. I would love to contact u but in know the rules here. It would be awesome but I don't know how I could or if you would even be interested. My friends have stopped coming around here. I'm in augusta. Home of James Brown and the master's golf tournament


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I was at the masters this year. In fact, the affair really got going 2 days before I went. It would be awesome to have someone to speak to n person. Your pretty far away though.


Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs
EA: Started 3/2015
MC Started: 4/2015
She moved out and served 6/2015
PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015
2 young kids

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I play piano at the surrey center every year for masters. The surrey is on berkman road just across the street from the tournament. I would give you my contact info but I'm not sure if that is ok here. I would love to talk to you u as well.


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