Nope, do not confront her yet. You need to take a step back and breathe. Just saying the word confront sounds confrontational. You want to discuss it with her right? I would wait until you have had time to really think about how you want to approach this. She is not going anywhere this second. You need to have your ducks in a row before you go down this road.
Trust me. I know it is hard. Resist that temptation. Do not confront her yet. That is one of the biggest mistakes I made. You do not want this conversation driven by emotion. If you need to, leave the house. Go for a walk or just ride around in the car.
Wait for the vets to get on here and talk to you. Sandi may have some really good advice.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."