Too angry right now

[asitis]

What AZ says. In fact, it is better if you focus on doing this stuff when she's not looking and make it a habit. Then it comes off more naturally & w/ credibility. Also, seeing you interact w/ other people in ways that address problems raised is another way to show w/ credibility, so practice improving any shortcomings that are appropriate w/ everyone else. Good R skills are good R skills.

And on the thinking you are gay issue, you won't be able to change her mind on that until she is through w/ some of the mess she has to figure out for herself. Of course, if you want to start thinking through how to address that concern, whenever you're ready.