do more arround the house show her I care for her show her she still means the world to me ??
This will do the opposite of getting her attracted to you. She doesn't want to be M to you! And you are going to knock yourself out proving she still means the world to you?
Nobody said this would be easy. As long as you dwell on how attracted you are to her, it just makes it more difficult. You can pretend, can't you?
We understand what you're saying about the unfairness, but it doesn't cause her feelings to change just b/c it's not fair to the baby.
You have to change gears. Think and act differently. Change the dynamics of how things stand at the moment.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
