I'm certainly no vet, but I think the big question you should be asking yourself is whether you want to join her or not.
All the rest is going to be mere speculation. (I know because I am guilty of it often!)
Good luck in whatever you decide there. I would say just make sure you have a good time. With or without her.
M: 38 W: 37 T: 20 M: 19 Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12 BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out) PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM) Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015