You keep asking, so I will tell you........yes, she thinks you are an idiot! The fact she can have you pick up her BC pills, tell you some bs story, plus fill in info about OM's kiss........and your reaction is to have ANOTHER TALK.........pretty much says it for her.
No more talk! Don't you realize one reason she doesn't respect you is b/c you have continued to put up with her sh't? You have given the same excuses over and over again. Seriously, go back and read them for yourself.
Call it what it is........Fear. Fear is what has really prevented you from moving out. She sees the fear. It turns her off. She is lying and planning to sleep with OM. What is there to talk about that has not already been said? You have talked this thing to death. What has it solved? If you had left the last time, I think it would have been very affective. But frankly, I think it is you who's terrified of leaving, instead of her.
NH, I read all your posts but have never commented. But...wow...come on NH, it's time. Sandi nailed this above, listen to her for heavens sake. There's a Tom Petty song with the lyrics "I'll probably feel a whole lot better when you're gone". NH, you are going to feel a whole lot better when you find some self respect and take some action.
