Signing the Big D - What to do Next?

[Sotto]

Hi Pink, I think you just jumped straight back on to the rollercoaster right after your D!

I don't think you need a boyfriend to feel better. That's going to complicate your life no end! There is no need to make any decisions about H either just now.

If H truly wants to try and win you back, I think he is going to have to offer much more than words. I think he is going to have to dig deep, you know? As Starsky might say - Alot has happened! - and there is no easy recovery from that...

Part of me wonders if he just needed reassurance that (even though you just D'd) you are right where he left you. Reassured, he can then go off to France and potentially see OW to 'end' things - but we know that can go either way.

For now, I would just draw back some and let the dust settle. See what happens over time. Recover from your D, just be Pink, and don't climb on that rollercoaster again just now. Keep H at whatever distance you are comfortable with....

And above all - take care of yourself and those lovely boys xx