Thanks everyone for the response. Unfortunately I did tell H of my decision to abandon the Separation. I know I should not have. He is in the process of moving out and I know he won't take all his stuff. I will have to change the locks and deal with that.

M - 53
H - 48
DB - May 15
E June 15
Filed for separation/living mostly separate 7/15
H counter files for divorce 8/15

Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming