FIDO - Changing the Rules - Pt 3

[Sotto]

Hi NH, I can see you've had lots of advice already, but I just wanted to drop in and offer my good wishes. My take on things is that your W seems to have been drawn away from the M again. There was a time where she was making efforts to be transparent, and was keen to try and rebuild.

But now, from your posts, she sounds rebellious and focused elsewhere again. I think you are still waiting and hoping that this won't be the case, but I'm so sorry I think it is. And I think you just need to decide what you will do now. I don't really think a big talk will help. Is she really going to be able to reassure you in what she says? If she is wayward again, she may just lie.

Only you can decide what to do. And I think it is important to be very clear about how you want to live. What you will have in your life. And what you won't. Where your line is.

Good luck with however you decide to move forward. You've got this and we are all here to support if needed.

Sotto (formerly Toots) xx