Ive been learning to not aruge/counter and just validate or STFU. I think maybe that's what you mean?

The anger is lessening anyway. What's next?


Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?