I was correct, D12 stayed in her room the whole time. Instead of bunkbeds, there was a air mattress for her, mattress for OM daughter and S7 had to sleep on the floor. All in the same room. No trip to Disneyland, no trip to Sea World, no trip to the beach, no horses were bought for them, no game system and they spent one day with their grandparents. They did not even get to see them before they left. S7 was not given his inhaler every night like he was supposed to. D12 did not get her sinus rinse at night and was given 5mg of melatonin instead of the doctor recommended dose of 1/2mg or 1mg. If you can't tell, I am venting!!
I feel your pain Bob. How sad when a mother abandons her children and, seemingly overnight, forgets how to properly care for them, or worse yet, doesn't seem to want to. Your WW sounds like she's still in the thick of the fog, and letting OM rule her thoughts. Mine is similar, and I have pretty much taken over all aspects of child care for all 4 of my boys, including 2 that are special needs. I do all the laundry, medications, doctor visits, baths, and 90% of the cooking. WW has them over to her place 3x a week to have dinner, and that's it. It's the polar opposite of how she has been her entire life. Sort of like she snapped one day and decided it was time to be a party girl, take care of herself. Screw the rest of the world. Even my W's own sisters and father are happy that the kids are with me instead of her. Such a sad situation.
Great job on stepping up and being a fantastic father. Your kids are lucky to have you.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.
