Wow, NH. 1st and foremost, (((NH)))). You are the most patient man I believe I have ever been "acquainted" (using that term loosely, of course, since we are not technically even acquainted, but you are my DB friend) with. I totally agree with what Jim said about your W's attitude smacks of disrespect. She told you that her birth control pills were to prevent infection...SERIOUSLY??????? Why lie about that? What is the point? It is just plain deceitful and dishonest and disrespectful. I'm sorry, but I'm just getting angrier on your behalf the more I think about it. While I know everyone advocates not leaving the house, this is one case where I would pack my crap and go if I were you. Seriously, NH, if I didn't know how far apart we lived,based on our geography I would offer you my spare room just so you had some place to go.

I'm praying for you, my friend.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids