Hi Sotto and RD, as usual you always come to my rescue. Thank you so much for being there for me.
Sotto, I am really sorry to hear about the filing. Well, you see what is happening to my XH. I heard from Stander recently that sometimes people need to go to the extreme of D to just figure things out and most of the time they will regret what they did.
I was even reading some statistics about this and it is amazing how so much more researches are being made on re-marriages. It's alarming that couples break up and even D. Just to get back together a few years down the road.
Yes, I hear you and I think that is the best I can do right now. But I also know that I am just human and I confess that sometimes it is very hard to be strong, wait. Sometimes I feel like saying to him that if he wants to work on the R then we can talk and if he does not, so go fly a kite.
Well, I know better that it is baby steps, if I decide to stick to this.
RD, my lovely, could not help and spoke about my good friend that helps me to get through a lot of my issues. No details, H does not need that. Told him about you saying that it seems like your neighbors are dropping dirty laundry at your house.
I laughed and said that I feel very close to you since we are going through the same stuff. H asked me how did I meet you, well, none of your business.
I get your words about XH. But I also do not trust all what he is saying to me. For example, he is going to France but he is not planning to see OW? Really? First, he does not need to say anything to me, why? because we are divorced. His life is his business and I do not need to know anything and much less he needs to tell me this stuff.
The point here is that he is going there, he could easily say he can't right now, his brother would understand. H probably got a foot on his rear and he will maybe try one last time to see if things can work between then.
And that is the part that I am very tired already. H just go to hell you and your OW.
There is a say that there is a thin line between love and hate and I can say now that it is very true.
