From my experience you are in a no-fault state ... which is mostly about the D. As far as the kids go I will tell you this. I have a good buddy, between his xW and himself they have a d11. During the process his XW blew a gasket and told the courts he would go into the shower while d11 was there making her feel uncomfortable .. this was then stretched into more ... molestation more type stuff ... all in a ploy to gain 100% custody. Long story short ... d11 spoke with a state provided counselor and the judge smelled and called BS and tossed it out.
I would get a L ... but feel those TMs hold little weight.
