Hi Pink. I just came on to your thread to see if you had posted
That sounded like a very hard time. Your H is truly lost and is allready regretting his decision. This is a time for you to do nothing Let your thoughts settle and carry on with your life. Give everything time. His words were not easy to say and maybe he didn't say the exact words you wanted to hear but to an outsider he sounded like he is unsure of what he is thinking himself
You can't let this effect your health You need time to heal from the recent hurt and time to decide what's best for you.
I'm not trying to defend your H but he iis in a very bad place and lost. You were together a long time and you need time before doing anything
I hope the vets post because I'm sure they have experience of this and can advise you.
Don't worry about posting on others peoples threads , everyone understands when people are too upset or involved in their own sitch for a time
