Hi Ghost, I think detachment is a journey and not a destination. The journey is about recognising that 'life' is not all about your wife. It is about building up interests separate from your M, which help you focus on things other than your sitch. It won't help your sitch if you think of it all your waking hours.
It's not about not loving your W - more about not linking your own happiness to her just now. It takes time, patience and GAL though. Are you making GAL plans??
Sotto xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
