West1 hang in there, go and play with your guns, let some steam out, unfortunately they are out of our control, just step back and let GOD do his will. Will be praying for you and your family.
"Dear lord, please protect this man and his family from any harm and help guide his every step, protect his children, open his wife's eyes to the painful realities of separation and divorce and for her to consider working on their marriage, thank you, in Jesus name, amen!"