Living in the same house, I am paying all the bills, she is using my d15 s17 and her d15 as babysitters during the day to go and run "errands." Leaves as soon as I get home and doesnt return till babies are asleep most nights, says she doesnt want to be here, be around me, because she cant trust herself around me.

She does grocery shopping and gets things she always has for me, said she noticed things I am doing differently.

No talk of the divorce or even mentioning the separation at this point.


Me:35 W:37; S17 D15 D15 D1 D1
M:9 years T:11
BD 5/2/15
W moved out with her D15 our D1 D1 6/15/16
W filed for divorce 6/19/15
W moved back in 7/11/15