RE: online dating. I would advise against it. You moved from one marriage, immediately into a relationship with your W. Instead of dating another woman, I believe you need to date yourself. Learn to be ok with yourself. Learn what you want. Make yourself happy. Throughout this, you've struggled with being alone, so take that on. Because frankly, you aren't ready -- especially if you keep comparing them to your W.
Build yourself, build your friends, build your outside activities. Companionship can come later.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15