Zelda - Baby One More Time

[asitis]

Sorry you are struggling with this kind of stupid obstacle. In the U.S. we would just have to show the divorce order approved by the courts, although that doesn't mean there are still stupid rules companies have that haven't recognized the reality of D.

I know you are feeling abandoned by the loss of all those little things that H used to do. Most of us become mutually dependent on our S through a division of labor. Try to look at this as an adventure in making for a self-reliant Z who never has to feel dependent again. She is strong and joins with another person from that sense of strength because they are a good person for her to be with, & she knows she will never surrender that sense of empowerment. Partner will never be able to look down on her as incompetent or belittle her out of some sense of superiority. No men just looking to have a woman they can take care of and control. Rs are still work, but that sounds a lot more healthy & enjoyable to me. How about you?