Thanks for your help Jim. I've tweaked again....only slightly....and replied to H.

I'm doing pretty well today. I really appreciated my mini-date with RD last night. TBH, I felt so raw last night and this morning. On one level, I know this needs to happen and I may have needed to file anyway. On another, it's just.....painful, you know?

You're not sure about Sotto??? Let me tell you, that she is positive personified!! In truth, I have been meaning to change for a while - only because there is an association between Toots and me. It is best to leave her behind now as we are on to a new thread and a new phase.

I'm having a quiet day today. I was still tearful this morning and I have pottered about. It's a day off for me and I'm glad this news came at a time I have some space and no pressure. I'm about to head out shopping, and I'm helping out at Mum & Dad's later. WFH tomorrow and then Llama trek. Then bookstore Friday and meal out with a friend that evening. Thanks for being there for me in my hour of need xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus