My W told me on 8/3/15 that she and the kids were moving in with her mother. That was the same day I decided to really start working on LRT. We haven't had any M and R talks since then. Also, she is still in the house and I have not noticed her making any arrangements to move out.

This may sound like a stupid question. Should I ask her if she still plans on moving out? I have not brought it up and neither has she. we have not been fighting and I am making progress on the LRT. I know I have read that it is easier to detach from a W if she is not still in the house. Im just wondering what to do. I think from what I am learning here on the site is that I should not bring up any R or M talks.

I think I will keep my mouth shut on the subject and let her bring it up if she feels the need.

I want her to see what life without me would feel like but I don't think im the one who should decide whether she leaves or not.

Any thoughts?


M:39
W:40
S:10
S:7
D:12
BD:3/5/15
Separate BR:3/5/15
W moved out with kids 1/3/16