Ghost - I think you should go back and reread your threads. I feel like you're asking a lot of questions that have already been answered.
But, to answer, you ARENT distancing yourself. You aren't trying to add distance, you're just not pursuing....right? You can't control if SHE continues to add distance for now.
And I think I may have not spoken clearly. You aren't trying to attract HER exactly. You're trying to be ATTRACTIVE. Dress nicely, act confident, be a good father, and so on. You aren't trying to woo HER, you are trying to be the best YOU, which is attractive.
