I use this board to post just about anything to get my feelings out here in a way that I don't explode at home on H, or slip into depression over this MESS!
Your mutual friends and the vacation home,,,I think these things are hindering your de-ttached to your H, then maybe otherwise.... MAYBE not, that place should be all about relaxing and having FUN.
If you both share that place, those friends. You will need to work with your H on when you will be there, so you will not be there at same time, and with your friends I would stop all conversations about your H your M, I would NOT tell them much of anything, and I will tell them that you don't need to hear about your H. They need to realize they are in the middle and they need to basically mind their own business and stay out of yours as it concerns you and your H.
That is just my 2 cents.
Hang in there, I think you are doing GREAT!!!! Our emotions will be all over the place so will our posts at times, it's OK, don't apologize for being emotionally and feeling confused about all of this.
Heck, I love my H, and I want a great M, but right now I don't have that and might not with H ever again,,,so of course that is an emotional situation.
Feel those emotions, to get them out to process them, and POSTS away like a mad woman and keep it moving.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
